A Welsh mummy's fashion and lifestyle blog. From high heels to hounds and everything in between!

IT'S BEEN A WHILE


How is it August 2018?  How is my baby nearly three?  What have I actually achieved this year?  I know its a cliché but time, if you wouldn't mind slowing down a fraction I would be grateful!


This time last year I was lost between loving being a full time mum, the loneliness of feeling left behind whilst the world of work moved on without me and feeling guilty for wanting to work!  I didn't really know what I wanted to do, I had moments of clarity, self doubt, fantasy and realisation.  But knowing how much I'm on social media (yep, I'll admit it!), why didn't I make this my career?  I'm not going to go into detail on this post about what I've chosen to do and who with, that deserves its own post entirely, but as from September I will be a student!  I will be undertaking a Social Media Management Course with Digital Mums.  I'm so excited to get started, to run a live campaign and gain so many new skills.  Harriet starts nursery too so it is the perfect time for our family, for me to really get my teeth into something I'm interested in.  More on this as the course starts...


The summer so far has been amazing.  How can we complain about all the glorious sunshine we have had?  Of course we can complain, we are British! It's either too hot, too cold, too windy or too wet!  We will never be happy but this weather has made me buy so many outfits my bank balance has said enough is enough.  There are so many pretty dresses and co ords and skirts and tops.  Sometimes I wish I didn't have Instagram.  If I didn't see it then I wouldn't want it.  Here is a round up of my favourites that I've been wearing all summer long.










Around Spring time I decided I wanted to get back into the shape I was in pre-baby.  It's very difficult, especially when you are quite slim naturally, to explain to others that you're not happy.  I used to ride 7 days a week, I was fit, lean and strong.  I don't have time to ride since having Harriet but I've started making a conscious effort to get fit, toned and lean.  Even though I take the dogs on two long dog walks a day, my body is used to it.  I've started running a few mornings a week.  I've never been a runner so it was difficult in the beginning.  I would stop more than I ran but I never gave up.  I can now run 5k without stopping which for some is like a stroll in the park, but for me this was a massive achievement.  I'm also doing ab workouts at home every day and squats and anything else I can fit in.  When Harriet starts nursery next month I may join a gym, but for now I'm pleased with the slow results I'm seeing.


Diet was always going to be and is my biggest setback.  I love cakes, I love chocolate and anything else that's bad for you.  I have made small changes like not buying any biscuits or cakes etc so there's none in the house but if we go out and I have one thing I don't berate myself for it.  Thanks to lovely friends who are also personal trainers, I've looked at what I've been eating and made some improvements.  But the biggest thing I realised was I wasn't actually eating enough, even though I was eating three meals a day, it wasn't enough for my body.


I will write a more details post about diet and fitness but I've only just started my journey and don't want to misinform you guys so I will research it, and work with my personal trainer friends to give you accurate advice not the crap some of these big companies try to get you to believe to buy their products! But so far I am loving the difference in my body, and I feel better in myself too.


It's been a great month!  I've been supported by a few small businesses which I'm grateful to.  I will write separate posts for their products as I didn't want it to get lost in my waffling!  I have one of my best friends hen parties in Barcelona and my beautiful daughter turns three!  I have so much to share but I'll leave it here for now as it's my first post back in the blogging world!


I hope to keep you all entertained, hopefully with more mum stories and fashion and lifestyle.  My biggest fear was trying to copy other bloggers and I think it is so easy to play it safe and do exactly what the big boys are doing.  But I'm a little more confident now so this is gonna be bit more like me!

Victoria
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