THE CLASSIC TRENCH

The trench coat is back again this Spring.  From McQueen to Celine they were everywhere on the Spring Summer catwalks.  Embroidered, embellished, raw edges and patterns.  There's lots to choose from.

When the snow eventually melts and we start to feel a little warmer, the trench coat is the perfect, lighter cover up.  It flatters all shapes and the versatile bugger goes with everything from jeans and trainers to dresses and heels.

Here are my top pics from high end to high street.

Alexander McQueen £8290

Chloe £1565

Reiss £325

Topshop £150

River Island £85

Zara £79.99

Zara £69.99

Bershka £49.99

The timeless classic has an update from time to time but it's definitely worth investing in.  It will forever be a go to item in your wardrobe.

Happy shopping!

Victoria
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THE JEANS I CAN'T TAKE OFF

If you had told me a few years ago that I would be obsessed with the jeans your mum had in the 80's and 90's I would have laughed at you. Fast forward to 2017/18 and I'm obsessed.

So what is a pair of "mom" jeans? Typically they have a higher waist, sitting around the same height as your natural waist.  The leg is tapered and the crotch area is more relaxed.

Personally, I find these teamed with a heel make the leg appear slimmer. I like to roll mine up slightly and show a bit of ankle (risqué I know!!). You can dress them up or down and they just... work.

I'm not a massive fan of low slung jeans anymore. Back in my early twenties I wore them as low as they could possibly be and teamed them with a cropped, crop top (think Aguilera style). But now I'm all about the mom jeans. The waist is flattering and comfortable (how old do I sound?!?!) but it means I can tuck blouses in, or wear a bodysuit or layer a sweater. Perfect waist height!  My favourites are H&M as I'm quite petite and some brands are too baggy for me and I look like I'm drowning in denim.

My top tip for mom jeans; try not to wear a baggy shirt or top or you will look "vintage" and if that's the look you're going for then great, but for a lot of people it will be too much and you'll lose your shape completely.

My favourite on the high street right now:

These are the pair I never take off!  A slightly slimmer, mom jean fit with pearl embellishment.

 H & M Slim Mom Jeans

Another slightly slimmer leg pair, in washed denim.  Amazing with a skinny knit and white boots!

H & M Light Blue Mom Jeans

Slim fit again, in a classic mid wash denim.  I would pop a Tee and mules with this look.

Asos Slim Fit Mid Blue Mom Jeans

Classic Mom Jean.  Straight outta the 80's and 90's.  Love these!

Pretty Little Thing Classic Mom Jean

These work well with a heel or trainers.  Add a classic cult sweater or a slogan Tee.

Boohoo Sports Stripe Mom Jeans

I would definitely say give them a try, but shop around. The style slightly varies from store to store.  So don't be put off if the first shop you visit, you hate them.  When you find the right colour and style for you, you'll definitely be pleasantly surprised.  They instantly transform an outfit from normal to cool.  You only have to search on Instagram to see any fashionista worth her Gucci belt rocking these bad boys!

Happy shopping

Victoria
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WHY DO YOU BLOG?

It seems that everyone is blogging (me included) these days; businesses and personal blogs, on platforms like Wordpress or Blogger or on social media. But why? What do you blog? What's the point? Who cares? I get asked this all the time by my husband. He isn't a massive fan of social media. A business minded, hardworking man who thinks it's a pointless task unless it's making you money.

My blog hasn't been touched since August. I kind of know what I want to write but taking the time to sit down and execute it is never top of my to do list when I'm looking after my family and home.

Do I blog to get paid? No. Do I blog because I want free stuff? No. (Although I won't say no 😉).  I do it because I love writing. This is my creative outlet. I know it won't be everyone's cup of tea. You may think it's boring, not well written, or not enough images and that's ok.  I blog because I like it, but if one person gets a style idea, or some confidence to try something new or it even just makes you smile then that is ok with me.

Blogging is a huge industry that is constantly growing. There's no right or wrong way to do it. It's something anyone and everyone can do.  I find it engaging and supportive. Other bloggers inspire me and give me ideas.

I'm trying to make my blog more interesting with different sections; mum life, fashion, lifestyle. It takes up quite a bit of time because I'm not that tech savvy and I'm still learning.  I'm just a mum, with a passion for fashion (cliche I know 🙈), that enjoys writing and wants to share my ideas with whoever wants to read them. A bit of me time, to shut off from the mundane and use my brain.

So if you take the time to read this, please comment and say Hi! If you also blog let me know your blog name as I love to read others too.

Victoria

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BREASTFEEDING A TODDLER

1st - 7th August is World Breastfeeding Week, celebrated in more than 170 countries every year.

I am a proud breast feeding mumma! When I was pregnant I hoped I would be able to breast feed but wasn't going to put pressure on myself if I couldn't.  As Harriet turns 2 this month and we are still  nursing, I think it is important to write this post. 

Most people who find out I'm still nursing my toddler are sadly shocked and some even horrified.  She has teeth!  You're doing it for you not her.  You need to tell her no.  Sadly this is what I hear day in day out.

Even though I was happy and ready to stop nursing when she turned one, Harriet had other ideas.  Not interested in dummies or comforters, I was always and still am her comfort.  When she is hurt, scared, tired, upset, poorly, breast feeding works wonders.  Through sleepless nights of teething and more recently with colds and viral infections, when she's too poorly to eat, thank god I've got boobs. Yes sometimes, when it's bed time and she will only fall asleep whilst nursing, I think have I made a rod for my own back?  But she is two not twenty two, her needs will change.  She will grow out of it like she's grown out of baby toys, like children grow out of using nappies.  I think a lot of people forget she is still very young, still solely dependent on me.  Yes her speech is excellent for her age and she can have quite the conversation with you, but she still gets scared, frustrated, tired.  Toddlers feed for many of the same reasons as infants: nutrition, security, comfort and reassurance.  Even the World Health Organization and UNICEF recommend that babies be breastfed for at least two years.

Some say that a breastfeeding toddler will have difficulty becoming independent.  My child is the most independent little girl you've ever met.  She is confident around her peers and adults, she makes friends easily and is quite happy to be left at nursery or with grandparents.  She sleeps all night and eats a balanced diet.  Does she sometimes mess about and want 'boobie' because I've said no to something, or told her off or because she's trying to avoid bedtime?  Yes.  But this is all part of learning.  She is starting to understand boundaries and how to push them.  Her personality is blossoming and with that comes testing times.  It doesn't mean I stop nursing her, this is when she needs reassurance and familiarity

I am also asked constantly when am I going to stop.  Although I am ready and have been for quite a while, she still feels she needs it and whilst she wants to nurse it is fine by me.  Some mums chose not to or couldn't breast feed, some only nursed for a few weeks and some for a few months, and you know what?  That's ok too.  You have to do what is right for you, your needs and your babies. 

But for those that are doing extended nursing... in this modern world where children grow up too quickly, I say to you all; relish this time.  Who cares what anyone else says?  It's your body, your baby and there's no right or wrong.

Just keep on boobing

Victoria
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MY FAVOURITES THIS MONTH

It's August, school's out, everyone is on a wind down and guess what? It's pretty much rained every day!  Typical British weather!  It's sweltering one week and the next I'm turning the heating back on (just don't tell my husband)!

I sit and stare at my pile of ironing that I should be doing whilst Harriet has a nap and I find my eyes and my mind creeping over to Instagram.  Social media has made a massive impact on the way we live our lives and for businesses, especially smaller companies and start ups, it has been a huge platform particularly those that don't have the marketing budget of international companies.  Thanks to artistic photos, bloggers, influencers and of course whether you love it or hate it, the new algorithm, you can find lots of new companies to buy from, bloggers to follow and  events to attend.

When I first started writing this blog I wanted it to be informative and well written, I wanted to  include my home life, fashion and interior design, but I find myself more and more talking about just my home life, my life with my family.  Initially, I wanted to have the most amazing pictures, I needed the latest digital camera straight away, I tried to make my husband become an Instagram husband (yes, I did and Nathan I'm sorry ha ha).  I read other blogs and wanted my life and my blog to be just like theirs. But for a blog to be genuine and capture peoples hearts, it has to be organic.  Yes we all post our best pics, I'm not going to lie about that but what I write is what happens to me, what we get up to, things I've purchased or recommend using.  Sometimes I think I should write a post and then I think to myself, what on earth am I going to write about?  Who cares what I've been up to this week?  But really, I am not writing this blog for popularity.  If any of my posts entertain you, inspire you or are informative then I'm truly grateful.  This is a way to express myself, my views and opinions but also to share memories' special events and the whirlwind that is becoming a mum.

Here are some of my favourites this month.

Parents of Fussy Eaters Rejoice
Someone I stumbled across on social media is  My Fussy Eater a blog dedicated to recipes, diet plans, tips and tricks, all for the most fussiest of eaters.  Harriet went through a phase of only eating yoghurt and spaghetti hoops, not even chocolate was appealing.  Luckily we seem to have moved through that stage but I found some great recipes on this blog.  One of her favourite snacks are Cheesy Puff Pastry Stars, not the healthiest snack in the world but if your children are already eating plenty of fruit and veg, who doesn't love a cheesy snack that's super easy to make?!

Ingredients

• 375g ready rolled puff pastry sheet (who has time to make their own?!?)
• 1 egg
• 50g grated cheddar cheese

Instructions

1. Preheat the oven to 180c and line a baking sheet with greaseproof paper.
2. Roll out the puff pastry sheet onto a floured surface. Use a star shaped cookie cutter to cut out individual pastry pieces and place them on the baking sheet. Using the egg, apply a thin layer of egg wash to the top of each pasty star and then top with a little cheese.
3. Bake in the oven for 10-12 minutes until the stars are golden.
4. Serve immediately or keep in an airtight container for up to 2 days.

Supporting Small Independent Businesses

I love supporting small businesses and was so happy when I stumbled across Bohemias Closet on Instagram I fell in love straight away.  A British company selling clothing and footwear created by a mum.  Beautiful handmade leather shoes and cotton rompers all packaged in drawstring bags.  Luxury items without a luxury price tag, be sure to check them out.  I am in love with Harriet's rose gold shoes!

Crafting

When I am trying to juggle pipe cleaners, paint, glue and feathers and also trying to stop Harriet gluing something on the dogs or painting my walls/floor this apron has been a life safer!  With a super fun colourful pom pom trim and made from hardwearing durable linen.  Its the perfect accessory for a busy mum and an even busier artistic toddler!  The length of the apron makes it perfect for me or a child, even Harriet who is shorter than most 2 year olds managed to wear it, in fact I couldn't get it back off her!  Such a fun design, who doesn't want to look this stylish whilst crafting and playing?  Available from Hoi Interiors

If there are any blogs or companies you follow, be sure to write a comment with their details.  Let's share the love.

Hope everyone enjoys their weekend

Victoria
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Supporting Friends In Business

Little Welly Gifts

Last night I was lucky enough to be invited to the preview and launch of Little Welly Gifts .  A beautiful gift boutique situated in the picturesque market town of Usk, Monmouthshire.

My lovely friend Sarah who I have known since our teenage years, firstly helping out at the local riding school, mucking out and gossiping which then moved on to terrible boy and outfit choices into our teens and early twenties.  But after babies and marriage things change, our outlook, goals and aspirations change.  We mature, we evolve and we have different priorities.

The name 'Little Welly' came from personalised, illustrated welly pictures that Sarah drew herself and sold through social media channels.  These gathered a huge following so other illustrations and gifts were also added to her business model and again proved popular thus propelling her into looking for ways to expand the business even more so.  Then finding inspiration from other home and gift boutiques around the country, Sarah wanted to open a  store, her gift boutiques ethos to be that they stock as many products as they can from the UK and if possible manufactured here as well.  She is also constantly on the look out for companies that ethically source their materials.  Sarah, didn't want to stock mass produced items, she wants to support British businesses and manufacturing.  To know where items are sourced and knowing those paid to make them have been fairly treated is very important to her and her business.

Some of the beautiful products Little Welly Gifts stock include Wild Olive bath products.  These deliciously, pretty soaps and bath melts are handmade in the Peak District, using natural ingredients, paraben free and vegan friendly.  Carrie Elspeth handmade jewellery from South Wales.  Luxury soft toys by Ragtales, handmade baby shoes by Starchild and handmade wooden toys all made in Britain.  There are also unusual and quirky gifts including scarves, ornaments, mugs and much more. 

On the night, I purchased a beautiful pinafore skirt and blouse for Harriet by Pigeon Organics.  They use fairtrade cotton and manufacture in a small factory in Nottingham.  The set is beautiful and very well made.  The babygrows are delightful and I cannot wait to surprise my friends with these beautiful gifts when their babies are born.

They also offer a free embroidery service which can really make your gift stand out from the crowd.  A unique and totally personal item you can treasure forever.

I was self employed, I ran my own ladies boutique.  I know how scary it can be to leave a job and start from scratch.  If you're passionate and it's something you believe in and you have a good a solid business plan then I say definitely take the leap.  Being your own boss can be hard, if you're ill you can't just call in sick, you have to make the difficult decisions, profit, reputation, success; it's all on your shoulders.  But the rewards definitely out weigh the bad stuff.  One of the things I will never forget is those friends that celebrated my launch and continued to support me.  They shopped at my boutique, they shared my posts on social media and they told their friends and colleagues.  For that I am forever grateful.  So it is important for me to do the same for my friends.

By spending your money at local businesses you are helping the local economy.  You may create more jobs as the business grows in popularity, you get that personal service and most importantly of all, it's fun!

Who doesn't love shopping and finding unique items makes it even more enjoyable!

Happy shopping all!

Victoria
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BEAUTY AND BODY TREATMENTS

Waxing, shaving, epilating, you name it, I've done it trying to keep that pesky body hair away.  Most of us have it, mot of us hate it and most of us are always looking for the most efficient way to keep it at bay.  The amount of times Harriet has had a swimming lesson and I've been between waxes and the last thing I wanted to do is pop on a bikini.  Let's face it, we all are too busy to wait these days so when I heard about a treatment that is a lot less painful than waxing, quicker and more efficient I couldn't wait to try!

Yesterday I underwent Intense Pulse Light treatment which uses SWT, a unique waveband technology to permanently remove hair on my bikini line at Beauty Oasis Day Spa & Salon.  I've heard about laser and IPL  hair removal in the past.  I thought it was a fad, probably excruciatingly painful and probably didn't work.  But how wrong was I?!

I opted for a full Hollywood, the treatment itself was over a lot quicker than waxing and a lot less messy too!  The procedure doesn't hurt, it's a little uncomfortable, like little elastic bands flicking you, it's not painful, just makes you jump a little.  I would opt for ten hours of the elastic band feeling rather than ten minutes of waxing that is for sure!  The hairs are only destroyed when they are in a certain stage of growth so after one session you should see a difference however a course  of 6 - 8 sessions is recommended to ensure all hairs are treated.

So how does this marvellous miracle work I hear you cry?  Basically, to achieve long lasting or permanent hair removal, it is necessary to destroy the hair follicle from which individual hairs grow.  Controlled pulses of light penetrate the epidermis and are absorbed by melanin in the hair contained in the follicle.  Melanin converts the light energy into heat.  This heat is transferred to the hair follicle, which is destroyed, making it unable to produce a new hair. 

It has only been a day and I'm not tender or sore, which always happens after waxing.  I'm a total convert.  It is definitely the way forward.  I am looking forward to my next session and I shall definitely be booking my legs in soon!

SWT laser treatments are also available at Beauty Oasis for skin rejuvenation, facial thread veins and acne clearance.  So basically, I am going to be living in the salon!

For more information about this procedure head over to http://www.beautyoasis.co.uk/   or follow them on facebook https://www.facebook.com/beautyoasisdayspa/ Alternatively tel 01495 762736

Here's to a fuzz free future!

Victoria
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